Burn the Haystack: Decode Dating, Torch the Duds, and Make Room for Men Who Matt

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height: 1 in Type: Textbook Number of Pages: 320 Pages ISBN: 9780063447578 Publication Year: 2026 Item Height: 1 in Format: Hardcover Subject: Communication & Social Skills, Rhetoric, Interpersonal Relations, Dating Language: English Book Title: Burn the Haystack Item Width: 6 in Subject Area: Family & Relationships, Language Arts & Disciplines, Self-Help, Psychology Author: Jennie Young Publication Name: Burn the Haystack : Decode Dating, Torch the Duds, and Make Room for Men Who Matter Publisher: HarperCollins Item Length: 9 in width: 6 in ISBN-13: 9780063447578 Item Weight: 16.3 Oz

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Burn the Haystack: Decode Dating, Torch the Duds, and Make Room for Men Who Matt. Burn the Haystack by Jennie Young, PhD. Title Burn the Haystack. He's testing if you'll be okay with being objectified. Understanding this pattern will help you disengage from this guy before he ruins your Ribbon for Bare Minimum: He opens his bio with "I will never hit you" (shockingly common) or brags about basic adult life skills such as having a job or washing his sheets. Burn the Haystack by Jennie Young, PhD Estimated delivery 3-12 business days Format Hardcover Condition Brand New Description USA TODAY AND NATIONAL INDIE BESTSELLER!It's time for a dating revolution!How do you find a needle in a haystack You burn the haystack to the Dr. Jennie Young's legion of fans, the "needle" is a long-term, committed partner and the "haystack" is the group of men available to date. So often women are advised to "give the guy a chance," to take seriously men whose app bios tell women not to take themselves seriously. Young's refreshing approach to online dating turns this advice on its head: Give almost no one a chance.A professor of feminist rhetoric, Young teaches people how to decode the hidden meanings in ordinary communication. Fascinated (and frustrated) by the rhetorical gambits she saw in men's profiles when she first downloaded a dating app, she created Burned Haystack to help other women navigate the nonsense and find their has revolutionized the dating lexicon by identifying common toxic rhetorical patterns in men's messaging, such as: Test and Apologize: He texts some sexual innuendo, then apologizes before you can even respond. He's testing if you'll be okay with being objectified. The test is real; the apology isn' He uses his dating app profile to "lay down the law" with women, which usually turns into abuse down the road. Understanding this pattern will help you disengage from this guy before he ruins your Ribbon for Bare Minimum: He opens his bio with "I will never hit you" (shockingly common) or brags about basic adult life skills such as having a job or washing his sheets. Things don't improve from here. Young's engaging system empowers readers to sort through profiles quickly and effectively, preserving both time and sanity. And with its blend of scathing humor and academic rigor, Burn the Haystack is so much more than a dating tool—it gives women the skills to break down communication from the classroom to the boardroom and everywhere in between, and the confidence to approach life with a deeper, more powerful level of understanding. Details ISBN 0063447576 ISBN-13 9780063447578 Title Burn the Haystack Author Jennie Young, PhD Format Hardcover Year 2026 Pages 320 Publisher HarperCollins Publishers Inc GEItemID:177124023; About Us Grand Eagle Retail is the ideal place for all your shopping needs! With fast shipping, low prices, friendly service and over 1,000,000 in stock items - you're bound to find what you want, at a price you'll love! Shipping & Delivery Times Shipping is FREE to any address in USA. Please view eBay estimated delivery times at the top of the listing. Deliveries are made by either USPS or Courier. We are unable to deliver faster than stated. International deliveries will take 1-6 weeks. NOTE: We are unable to offer combined shipping for multiple items purchased. This is because our items are shipped from different locations. Returns If you wish to return an item, please consult our Returns Policy as below: Please contact Customer Services and request "Return Authorisation" before you send your item back to us. Unauthorised returns will not be accepted. Returns must be postmarked within 4 business days of authorisation and must be in resellable condition. Returns are shipped at the customer's risk. We cannot take responsibility for items which are lost or damaged in transit. For purchases where a shipping charge was paid, there will be no refund of the original shipping charge. Additional Questions If you have any questions please feel free to Contact Us. Categories Baby Books Electronics Fashion Games Health & Beauty Home, Garden & Pets Movies Music Sports & Outdoors Toys